This story was shared with me by my brother in law shortly after my father's passing, 3 years ago. I still can't read it without getting weepy. Mostly because I can see my dad in the story. Oh how I miss him.
"During your ceremony I noticed that the sealer was standing between your dad and you (Kaylinn). Not wanting to disrupt the ceremony I watched as your dad tried to get a glimpse of you. I then noticed that he seemed to be staring at me. I wasn't sure why he was looking at me (since I clearly am not an attractive person). Then it clicked that he was looking beyond me and into the mirror to see the reflection of his daughter. Upon realizing this, I ducked down so he could have a clear view of you during the ceremony. To my surprise (as he seemed so removed to me), when the ceremony was over and I sat up, he turned to me and said "bless you Joe". Now, for me, the day was already emotional enough (as I am sure it was for the both of you), but to have been able to offer what little I could and to have your dad acknowledge it (and remember my name???), that was special to me. He must have been an incredible man in the peak of his life. I wish I could have known him earlier in this life, but look forward to meeting him in the next. "
That's my dad. Always good with names. Always with a quick wit and a way to get the group laughing. Always. Always a good man.
Missing you here dad as we pass yet another year. Give copious hugs to your little grandson before he gets here so that when I hold him that first time, I'll know that you held him just moments before.
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